How do you make a woman you love faithful or loyal to you? Women are said to be complicated and unpredictable and most times, people make the mistake of generalizing. The common belief that money is all that’s needed to make a woman faithful to a man is becoming less true with time. Every woman wants to be comfortable, with the means to enjoy and live the best life but why is it that, with all the comfortability, there is also the tendency of her being unfaithful? If women were blessed with a supernatural ability to know the man that truly love and respect them, a man who will not hurt her, do you think they’d go for such men? Friend Zone right?. If money was the problem, we wouldn’t have so many “sugar mummies“.
If money does not guarantee faithfulness, does love?
Love is sacrifice. Any love that does not include sacrifice is not true. Love is just an idea. Just like beauty, it is in the eyes of the beholder. Every girl once thought that love was all that mattered, love conquers, love is the solution, the only true way to happiness but the older we get, the more we realise that there are other things that matter as well. Love isn’t blind anymore, it sees even walks, talks, feel and smell. The unconditional kind of love is as rare as picking a million dollars on a dumpsite.
What Then?
There is no manual to these things. Women come in different shapes, sizes and colour. All women are not the same. Every woman wants something different. Ask her what she wants, the things that make her happy, her dreams and expectations. Recognize all the flaws and strengths. Her answers to these questions will determine your method. Share yourself before committing. Make sure you know what you’re getting into. Unrealistic and unmet expectations are often reasons for unfaithfulness.
The Real Deal?
If you have a very busy career life, you hardly spend six hours in the house, don’t marry a needy housewife that constantly needs the attention of a man. A man that is not financially buoyant has no business with a woman that is extremely materialistic. Don’t forget to discuss your spending habits before marriage. Leave a woman with insatiable sexual urge, if you’re no match to her, she will seek pleasure elsewhere. The deal is to marry someone that speaks your language. Someone that understands and complements you perfectly.
What Is The Secret?
Happiness. You really need to focus less on her faithfulness and more on making sure she’s happy. A happy woman will honour you with everything, especially her body. It takes self-control to be faithful. A woman who is principled and disciplined will remain faithful to the vows she made. A woman that respects her body, will respect her marriage. It takes a woman who wants to be faithful to remain faithful. You don’t make a woman faithful, she decides to stay faithful. Faithfulness is a two-way street, the vows were taken by both parties, both should honour their vows. #IntelNaija
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